Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Jodoh Itu Milik Tuhan

Waktu pacaran memang waktu yang paling indah dan menyenangkan dalam setiap hubungan, pada saat itu juga kita merasa pasangan kita adalah orang yang paling tepat dan memang jodoh kita, apalagi dibarengi dengan restu kedua keluarga yang sangat mendukung akan hubungan kita. Tetapi selama apapun kita berhubungan dengan pasangan kita dan seindah apapun hubungan kita dengan pasangan selama masa pacaran, respon baik dan sangat mendukung dari keluarga kedua belah pihak, itu semua tidak menjamin adaah pasangan anda yang saat ini adalah jodoh anda.

Jodoh adalah ditangan Tuhan, kita tidak pernah tau kapan itu akan datang dan siapa yang datang. Tuhan mempersiapkan semua yang kita perlukan dengan sangat teratur dan pada saatnya. terkadang ada yang sudah bertahun tahun menjalin hubungan kasih tetapi pada akhirnya mereka tidak jadi menikah, dan ada juga yang baru beberapa minggu berkenalan mereka langsung cocok dan menikah. itu semua rencana Tuhan.

Jodoh tidaklah hanya pada waktu berpacaran saja, karena usia jodoh juga ditangan Tuhan. Anda menikah dengan suami/istri anda sekarang beum tentu jodohnya sampai akhir hayat, ada yang sayangnya usia perkawinan anda hanya seumur jagung dan ada juga yang memang sampai akhir hayat.

Jodoh adalah di tangan Tuhan. Teruslah berdoa dan meminta jodoh yang terbak menurutNya. karena yang terbaik untuk umatnya adalah yang disiapkanNya.

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Thursday, October 4, 2012

What To Wear When You Meet His Parent


A Figure-Flattering Dress

A little black dress is always a good choice. To keep it from being too boring, look for one with some interesting details—like the pockets and bow accent here. Make sure it's not too clingy but still shows off your bod. 

Or Great-Looking Pants

Opt for a trendy pair of pants in a pretty fall color—stay away from jeans or leggings. It's always better to be overdressed than underdressed.

And a Silky Blouse

We love this top because it's festive and flirty without being too sexy.

Classic Heels

Break out your best-looking shoes—think classic shape with a closed toe. You can change into the strappy pair your BF loves later in the evening.

A Structured Bag

Think not too big (they'll wonder what kind of baggage you're carrying) but big enough to hold everything you need—including makeup for touchups.
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Sex By Horoscope Sign III


9. Sex With Gemini Man.
Ruled by Mercury, the god of communication (as well as tricksters and thieves), Gemini men are attracted to sexual partners who can match their lightening quick wit. For them sex is a mental sport, as well as a physical one.
Do you love sex in strange places? Then you’re in luck. The risk of getting caught only adds to the excitement. The bonnet of a car, the boardroom table, the branches of a tree, be prepared to get your sexy on in all kinds of places.
Gemini men tend to bore easily so you’ll need to keep him guessing. Suggest a sexy role-playing or fantasy game, the more adventurous the better - bi-sexual or group encounters are always a favourite.
Blow his mind: Set up a sexy treasure hunt. Send him dirty text messages as clues and choose an exciting location to award him the final prize – you!
His favourite position: Gemini men love talking dirty, so choose a position where he can whisper dirty sweet nothings to you, such as the eritotic end.
10. Sex With Cancer Man.
Ruled by the moon, Cancer men are the most emotional of the star signs. The crab wears a hard outer shell because he doesn’t want to get hurt – but break through his barriers and the fun and games can really begin!
The crab may seem a little shy at first, but once he trusts you he’ll be happy to go with the flow and may even surprise you with some highly creative sexual positions.
Feel free to release your inner dominatrix. The Cancer man appreciates strong women who know what they want and will go along with whatever makes you happy, no matter how kinky.
Blow his mind: Make the crab feel at home by seducing him on the water. If he’s too shy for skinny-dipping, hire a boat and row out to the middle of a lake, strip off and see where the tides takes you.
His favourite position: For an even deeper emotional connection choose a position where you can look into each other’s eyes, such as the time bomb.
11. Sex With Leo Man.
Ruled by the sun, the Leo man is fiery and passionate and can make a supremely loyal and protective lion of a lover – if you stroke him up the right way.
Leo loves to be the centre of attention. Stroke his mane and marvel at his roar and the king of the jungle will roll over and show you his tummy like a pussy cat.
The Leo man is open to trying new things and can be persuaded to take a walk on the wild side, especially if it shows him in his best light. The lion is, however, proud by nature and turned off by anything degrading or perceived to be beneath his dignity, so master-slave scenarios will only work if he’s the dominant one.
Blow his mind: Leo men love to see you naked, so treat your man to a sexy strip tease or turn up wearing a coat with nothing underneath but a pair of sexy knickers.
His favourite position: Leo men can’t help showing off in the bedroom. Position yourself in front of a mirror where he can admire his own prowess, as well as you, of course. Let him take centre stage with the leg lock.
12. Sex With Virgo Man.
Want to get a Virgo man in to bed? You’ll need to talk your way in. Ruled by the planet Mercury (the god of communication, amongst other things), the Virgo man is turned on by a ‘meeting of the minds’ and likes there to be a mental connection before he throws his clothes off.
The good news is that Virgo men make sensitive lovers and will put your pleasure first. Seeing you turned on turns him on - so don’t be shy about telling him what you want.
The Virgo man takes a great deal of pride in his technique and will spend hours perfecting it so you can achieve the best ever orgasm. He’s happy to experiment too, as long as it doesn’t make a mess on the bed sheets.
Blow his mind: Wear your best lingerie and tie yourself to the bed. He’ll love taking control of the situation and making sure your pleasure is nothing short of perfect.
His favourite position: The Virgo man likes to be in charge – simply so he can ensure that things are done right. Let him take control with the lusty lean.
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Sex By Horoscope Sign II


5. Sex With Aquarius Man.
Although not the most highly sexed of the star signs, the water bearer is naturally curious and is open to sexual experimentation, as long as he feels secure in your affections.
The Aquarius man loves to talk. Everything is up for discussion and he’ll want to know what turns you on. Don’t hold back – the more unusual your tastes are the more excited he will be. Don’t be surprised if you find you spend your first night together talking until the sun comes up!
He loves the quirky and unorthodox and is turned on by unusual sexual encounters. Although he’s always up for experimenting, be aware that he will want to withdraw and spend some time alone to recharge every now and then.
Blow his mind: Perfect your telephone sex voice. Call him at work and tell him exactly what you want to do when he gets home.
His favourite position: Find a position that allows him to whisper sweet nothings as he thrusts, like the face to face
6. Sex With Pisces Man.
Ruled by Neptune, lord of illusion and imagination, and Jupiter, god of drama, it’s little wonder the Pisces man is turned on by sexual fantasies – and the more elaborate they are, the better.
As a water sign, the fish loves to keep things changeable and will experiment with lots of different positions, often in the same night. Sex for him is about being creative and having fun, as well as making an emotional connection.
Those dating a Pisces man will want to invest in some sexy leathers and a whip. The Pisces man has a craving to be dominated, almost to the point of masochism.
Blow his mind: The fish loves to swim in all kinds of water. Arrange a midnight picnic and take him skinny dipping by moonlight.
His favourite position: Choose a position where you can stare into one another’s eyes for a deeper emotional connection or take control and dominate him with the joystick joyride.
7. Sex With Aries Man. 

Aries isn’t the sign of the ram for nothing! Physical and fearless, Aries men are easily turned on and have the sexual stamina to keep rutting all night long.
Ruled by Mars, the god of war, Aries men rush straight into the heat of battle. Foreplay? Who’s got time for that?
For Aries, the thrill of the chase is everything. Once he’s conquered you, the ram can easily become bored. The best way to keep him stimulated? Stroke his sizeable ego. “That feels amazing… you’re SO big”. He won’t tire of hearing it.
Blow his mind: Act the innocent. Invest in some sexy white lingerie and prepare to be conquered. Even better, let him think he’s taught you a new sexual position or two.
His favourite position: Aries men love a challenge and like trying new things – as long as he’s in charge. The lets him control the depth and speed of thrusts with the head game.
8. Sex With Taurus Man.
The Taurus man is slow and steady on the surface but awaken the Bull’s deep desires and you’ll find him full of surprises.
Ruled by Venus, the goddess of beauty and desire, the Taurus man appreciates good food and will happily wine and dine you. Unlike Aries, he’s in no rush to get to the main course and foreplay can go on for hours.
The Taurus man prefers a no-nonsense approach to sex. Save the role-playing games and fantasy sharing for a Gemini. Though loyal and caring, the Bull enjoys the physical release of sex - so don’t ruin it by talking too much.
Blow his mind: Invite him around for a sumptuous feast and pause between each course for a little sexual appetiser. Fine food and foreplay, what’s not to like?
His favourite position: Taurus men get pleasure from pleasing you, so will enjoy positions where he can stimulate your breasts and clitoris during intercourse, like the standing tiget or crounching dragon. 

Read more : http://nonaromantis.blogspot.com/2012/10/sex-by-horoscope-sign-iii.html
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30 Things To Do With Naked Man III


Get Dirty with Him in the Tub

A soak in the tub always feels incredible, but the sensual thrills quadruple when you invite your man in for some rub a dub action. Take turns slowly lathering each other up with a soft, natural sea sponge, tracing slow, sexy circles around your breasts, belly, and inner thighs, and get ready to fog up the mirror.

Tie Him Up

Even a plain scarf can make him see stars if you use the right technique. Take a long silk wrap, place it around his main man and the boys, and tie it in a large square knot, leaving about a foot of fabric on either end to hold on to. As you're riding him, pull on the free ends so that the knot rubs against your clitoris.

Imply That He's a Stud

Spark his ego by letting him know you want him sexually with a coy compliment. Letting him in on your longing for him jump-starts his own desire.

Make Him Hot, Then Cold

Cooling off your guy's steamy body actually gets him hotter. Make his satisfaction skyrocket by turning him on to deliciously unexpected strokes, pressure, and temperature changes. Try the classic ice-cube trick to make him shiver with excitement. Have him lie on his back, hold a cube in your hand, and slowly draw an icy line from his neck all the way down his body.

Seduce Him

Be direct by saying something like "I want to have sex with you." The straightforward approach is not merely about saving time (although it does have a way of cutting to the chase), it's about giving yourself the opportunity to display extreme sexual confidence, to advertise yourself as a person who assumes that whatever she wants, she can have.

Toy with Him

Stock up on some sex toys. Velvet-lined handcuffs can be exciting, and they don't hurt like the metal ones do. And you can never go wrong with a vibrator. Ask him to buzz it against your clitoris or tell him simply to sit back and watch you handle it.

Rev Him Up for Round 2

Your mattress moves are sizzling enough for a sequel! Lead him back to the sweet spot by telling him how good he makes you feel. And, this time your orgasm will be even hotter.

Let Him Climb on Top

Spice up missionary style and feel superdeep penetration by drawing your knees toward your chest and grasping the back of your thighs. You can also place the soles of your feet on his chest or, if you're really flexible, prop your ankles or legs up on his shoulders.

Play Rough

Guys tend to be tougher than us, so feel free to manhandle. Pinch his nipples (an often-overlooked nerve center), scratch your nails down his back, or massage his chest.

Make It a Quickie

Once you've launched his rocket in five minutes flat, he'll be willing to do just about anything for you.

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30 Things To Do With Naked Man II


Turn Him into a Buffet

Incorporating food into your passion play is a classic carnal activity. Take a few of your favorite erotically appealing flavor combinations, like peanut butter and honey or whipped cream and chocolate sauce, and mix up yummy treats all over his body.

Boss Him Around

Tell him want you want him to do without saying a word. Wrap your hand around one of his fingers or his penis, and when he does something you particularly like, give a squeeze.

Give Him a Peep Show

Turn your attention downstairs for some self stimulation and leave the invitation open for him to take over. Whether he joins in or not, guys love to watch, so it's a win-win situation.

Make Him Beg

Kiss and lick your way down his torso, stopping short of his penis, then give him a smile and work your way back up. Repeat several times until he begs for mercy.

Treat Him to Don't-Lift-a-Finger Sex

Indulge him with low-maintenance sex (where all he has to do is unzip his fly, if that) by sliding onto his lap in reverse cowgirl position reverse cowgirl position with your hands balanced on his thighs for support. Much like doggie-style, he'll be able to revel in watching your tush and touching your breasts  but without expending any lower-body energy.

Talk Dirty to Him

Start off with a purr or an mmmm, or simply breathe heavily. Then up the erotic ante by whispering, "So...what do you want to do now?"

Make Him Long for Your Lips

A fabulous kiss is an intricate balancing act involving tongue technique, pressure control, and moistness monitoring. Invade his space with a tantalizing kiss-me telegram.

Play No-Hands Nooky

Tell him to keep his hands to himself.  You can explore each other's bodies with your lips, tongues, and breath.

Taunt Him

A little torture builds a man's anticipation so that when you finally do pounce, every touch is extra delicious. As things get going, pull your thong aside for him to enter you. You'll drive him crazy because he can't see every last inch of your body.

Enlighten Him

Tantra is the exotic art of prolonging your passion to reach new levels of satisfaction. Launch your night of lust by gently massaging his ear with your fingertips, working your way down the outer fold. Then run your pinkie along the crease where his ear connects to his head and ever-so-slowly prod the middle of his sexually susceptible inner ear with the tip of your tongue.

Read more : http://nonaromantis.blogspot.com/2012/10/30-things-to-do-with-naked-man-iii.html
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30 Things To Do With Naked Man

Sneak Up Behind Him
Blow his mind with this sneaky move : Stand behind him and stroke his penis. This positions your palm flat against his member's sensitive underside, the same way he grips it when he masturbates. Then do a few things he can't do himself, like whisper in his ear or kiss his back.

Get Naked Too

There's a good chance that your guy has never feasted his eyes on your completely bare bod for more than a few seconds. Maybe it's because you undress quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for him to really take you in. But letting him stare at you in the buff is a surefire libido trigger.

Let Him Be an Animal

Initiate a primal move that fuels his frisky craving. Give him an animalistic challenge by having standing sex. Let him hold you up against the wall with your legs wrapped around his lower back. He'll be in the aggressor role since he's holding you up with his arms and lower bod, and he also gets the visual thrill of watching your breasts bounce during the act.

Break Out the Blindfold

Once you have him going crazy not knowing where your next lick, kiss, or stroke will land, treat your blindfolded boy to a slew of new sensations. Three to try: the feel of your hair, silk panties, or a string of pearls rubbed gently against his member. 

Climb on Top

The majority of the dudes we polled in our most recent sex survey picked woman-on-top as their number-one nooky style. Bonus: This position can be very intimate since your faces are touching and you can slide your arms around each other so you're superclose. It's also a great method for delaying his orgasm a little longer.

Take a Sensual Shower

Steam up your bathroom mirror by standing this close together in the shower. Add the water pouring over you, and this is a perfect position for lots of wet, passionate kissing. You can also gaze into each other's eyes, further boosting the intimacy factor.

Find His G-Spot

A guy's prostate — the walnut-size gland under his bladder — is the ultimate magic button to push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through oral sex or intercourse, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus.

Give Him a New Number

No doubt, you're intimately acquainted with 69. Now may we introduce you to 77? The number refers to the way you and your partner's bodies look when they meld together in this side-entry position. The unique angling practically guides his, uh, missile to your G-spot.

Find a New Favorite Spot

Steam things up at home by moving outside the bedroom and doing it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or hood of a car that's parked in your garage.

Massage His Backside

Take oral sex to a whole new level by caressing his butt cheeks as you're going down on him. Double his pleasure with the synchronized motions that let you control the pacing.

Read more : http://nonaromantis.blogspot.com/2012/10/30-things-to-do-with-naked-man-ii.html
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Friday, September 14, 2012

Sex by Horoscope Sign

1. Sex with Libra Man.
Ruled by Venus, the goddess of love and beauty, the Libra man is turned on by a sexual partner who appreciates the finer things in life, including of course, himself.
Flirting (and a good dose of flattery) will get your anywhere with a Libra man – but especially into his bed.
Although narcissistic at times, he is also keen to please and will spend hours on foreplay to ensure you are satisfied. Never fake it with a Libra man – his ego couldn’t take it.
More than a little exhibitionistic, he will happily go along with role-playing and fantasy games as long as it makes him look good. Just don’t underestimate his need for reassurance – or flattery.
Blow his mind: He loves finery and costume, so treat him to a burlesque strip tease complete with exotic feathers and sexy lingerie.
His favourite position: Libra men can lack decisiveness in the bedroom so take control and position him where you want him. Set up a mirror, or camera, and let him admire himself as he performs the G Force.
2. Sex With Scorpio Man.
Ruled by Mars, the god of war, and Pluto, lord of the underworld, the Scorpio man is a potent mix of primal passion and dark energy – a combination that can prove hard to resist.
Like Aries, the Scorpio man is blessed with a naturally high libido and impressive sexual stamina. Unlike Aries, the Scorpio man adores foreplay and it’s not unusual for his sexual encounters to go on all night. Sleep is for the weak.
Scorpio men are masters of seduction and once he decides he wants you, he won’t stop until he has you. Be warned though, anything goes for the Scorpio man. At times overwhelmingly insatiable, there is nothing too kinky he won’t (and hasn’t) tried.
Blow his mind: The scorpion loves a mystery so learn the art of intrigue. Instead of throwing your clothes off invite him to remove one sexy garment at a time.
His favourite position: Enjoy a more intense connection with a position that allows you to get wrapped up in one another.
3. Sex With Sagitarius Man.
The Sagittarius man is fiery and passionate – and anything but shy. Unlike the Cancer man, making love doesn’t have to be a deeply emotional experience. For the Sagittarius man, sex is just one more high in the big adventure of life.
Sagittarians love to talk and he will expect you to tell (and show him) what turns you on in bed. Inhibited wallflowers need not apply.
The archer likes to experiment and will go out of his way to push the boundaries. He is spontaneous in everything he does and loves visiting new places sexually – whether that means trying new positions or having sex in crazy places. Most of the guys who end up in A&E after a night of mad passion are likely to be Sagittarius.
Blow his mind: The Sagittarius man is always up for a sexual adventure so surprise him with a fast and furious quickie when he least expects it.
His favourite position: The archer craves the new and exotic so suggest something that will challenge him, like the erotic accordion.
4. Sex With Capricorn Man.
The Capricorns man can seem shy and conservative at first, but get to know him and you’ll discover a passionate and intense lover with a massive appetite for sex.
The goat is down-to-earth and doesn’t need anything exotic or fancy to get him going. He can be insecure at first and is unlikely to take the initiative until he feels comfortable.
That’s not to say he can’t be persuaded to experiment a little. Love and sex go together for the goat – once he feels secure in the relationship you’ll find he can be a surprising and creative lover.
Blow his mind: The goat likes to feel he is loved before he can really let himself go. Run him a bath and give him a slow sensual massage. Once he begins to relax, you’ll discover he’s a very horny goat indeed.
His favourite position: Expect him to take the missionary position – at least for the first few times you have sex. For a new twist, slide him into the soft rock.

Read more : http://nonaromantis.blogspot.com/2012/10/sex-by-horoscope-sign-ii.html
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Sunday, September 2, 2012

7 Things You Should Never Say To Your Wife

1. “Maybe you should go on a diet.” 
Yes, looking after your house and keeping it habitable has affected how she looks but if you can’t compliment her, don’t ever let her hear this one. Especially when you’re sitting with your perfect tyre in place.

2. “Why don’t you work as long as me?”
Yes, we get it. You’re irritated and need to spark off an argument but talking about what a great sacrifice you make by working is not going to help anyone. Especially if she’s quit her own job to look after the house and kids.

3. " That one looks hot"
If you have ever said this to your wife while checking out another woman and lived to survive the tale, you know what a landmine this sentence is loaded with.

4. “I don’t feel like talking.” 
This can be excused if used sparingly. However, if you want to prevent communication problems in your relationship then you better learn to have an open channel all the time.

5. “All you do is nag.” 
Desist from ever saying this. Your wife’s already short fuse will be completely blown if you such this incendiary sentence.

6. “Must be that time of the month.”
If you think you can use this line as a weapon for a clever retort, you’ve got another thing coming. This can be one of the most insulting, not to mention sexist, things you can ever say to your wife.

7. “You’re acting like your mother.”
The biggest no-no. No woman likes to be compared to another woman, especially her mother. Bear in mind you’re also passing a judgement on her mother with this one. Unless you want to spend an entire year apologising, refrain from ever using this line during your entire marriage.
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Why Women Forgive Cheaters But Man Don't

Today a report claimed that more than 6 in 10 women would happily forgive their partner for up to three ‘relationship errors’, but a massive 9 out of 10 men would dump their partner if they strayed just once. So what’s up with that? A quick poll around the office revealed three possible reasons...


We’re more realistic
My first instinct was to point the finger angrily at men and shout, ‘Er, you still think it’s us with the unrealistic expectations guys?!?!” Yes, after months of enduring eye-rolls and sarcastic comments from menfolk about our weird and ‘unhealthy’ fixations with the ethereal Edward Cullen and lustworthy Christian Grey, maybe the time has finally come for us to tell men where to shove it, because actually, it’s us women who are more realistic about life and relationships after all.
Yes, people cheat. And don’t get me wrong, it’s crap, wrong and horribly heart-wrenching when it happens. But maybe it’s us girls who know that it doesn’t always have to be a black and white ‘dumping’ issue and that hey, maybe, we can get over it and it’s not always the end of the world. In fact, social scientist Catherine Hakim appeared on BBC 4’s Woman’s Hour last week, saying exactly this. Hakim said that as a society we actually need to be more tolerant of affairs and that sometimes, they can even be a good thing. “If you take the view that  most of them blow over and a good marriage is still a good marriage we should be a bit more laid back about them like the French, Italians and Spanish,” she said. Controversial? Absolutely. Realistic? Maybe.

Men are territorial
Of course, the other explanation is that men’s egos simply can’t take the battering of being cheated on. As a rule, men tend to be much more territorial about their partners and while most men can’t handle the idea of their partner getting it on with somebody else, women tend to react much more strongly to emotional affairs than just physical affairs. A survey of my male friends revealed that they just can’t handle the idea of another guy getting their mitts on “their goods” (yes, their actual words) and simply can’t get over it. As one male friend put it, “It’s just not very masculine thing to let another guy get it on with your girlfriend and let them get away with it, is it? We’d look like a right walkover.” Could it be that men are prepared to throw away years of investment after one (probably stupid) mistake just for the sake of their pride? And that women are able to see past infidelity and see the bigger picture? Possibly.

It’s our low self-esteem
Of course, the other explanation isn’t quite as empowering. Could our readiness to accept affairs actually be down to a darker reason, like our low self-esteem? A recent survey showed that 3 out of 4 women say they lack confidence, compared with 57% of men. We also know that women in the workplace rate themselves as less competent than their male counterparts (a recent study showed than only half of women managers said they had high levels of confidence, compared to 70% of men). So could it be happening in relationships too? As a colleague reminded me earlier this week, once women hit 35, there’s just one single man to every seven women (seriously) so perhaps it’s this panic making us feel that we should hang on to our guy, no matter how tough it gets – because, hey, it’s better than being single!
Personally, I think all of us deserve to be in a happy, secure relationship and I know I’d much rather be single and happy than clinging on to a cheating guy for the rest of my life. But what do you guys think? Share your comment :) 
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