Friday, September 14, 2012

Sex by Horoscope Sign

1. Sex with Libra Man.
Ruled by Venus, the goddess of love and beauty, the Libra man is turned on by a sexual partner who appreciates the finer things in life, including of course, himself.
Flirting (and a good dose of flattery) will get your anywhere with a Libra man – but especially into his bed.
Although narcissistic at times, he is also keen to please and will spend hours on foreplay to ensure you are satisfied. Never fake it with a Libra man – his ego couldn’t take it.
More than a little exhibitionistic, he will happily go along with role-playing and fantasy games as long as it makes him look good. Just don’t underestimate his need for reassurance – or flattery.
Blow his mind: He loves finery and costume, so treat him to a burlesque strip tease complete with exotic feathers and sexy lingerie.
His favourite position: Libra men can lack decisiveness in the bedroom so take control and position him where you want him. Set up a mirror, or camera, and let him admire himself as he performs the G Force.
2. Sex With Scorpio Man.
Ruled by Mars, the god of war, and Pluto, lord of the underworld, the Scorpio man is a potent mix of primal passion and dark energy – a combination that can prove hard to resist.
Like Aries, the Scorpio man is blessed with a naturally high libido and impressive sexual stamina. Unlike Aries, the Scorpio man adores foreplay and it’s not unusual for his sexual encounters to go on all night. Sleep is for the weak.
Scorpio men are masters of seduction and once he decides he wants you, he won’t stop until he has you. Be warned though, anything goes for the Scorpio man. At times overwhelmingly insatiable, there is nothing too kinky he won’t (and hasn’t) tried.
Blow his mind: The scorpion loves a mystery so learn the art of intrigue. Instead of throwing your clothes off invite him to remove one sexy garment at a time.
His favourite position: Enjoy a more intense connection with a position that allows you to get wrapped up in one another.
3. Sex With Sagitarius Man.
The Sagittarius man is fiery and passionate – and anything but shy. Unlike the Cancer man, making love doesn’t have to be a deeply emotional experience. For the Sagittarius man, sex is just one more high in the big adventure of life.
Sagittarians love to talk and he will expect you to tell (and show him) what turns you on in bed. Inhibited wallflowers need not apply.
The archer likes to experiment and will go out of his way to push the boundaries. He is spontaneous in everything he does and loves visiting new places sexually – whether that means trying new positions or having sex in crazy places. Most of the guys who end up in A&E after a night of mad passion are likely to be Sagittarius.
Blow his mind: The Sagittarius man is always up for a sexual adventure so surprise him with a fast and furious quickie when he least expects it.
His favourite position: The archer craves the new and exotic so suggest something that will challenge him, like the erotic accordion.
4. Sex With Capricorn Man.
The Capricorns man can seem shy and conservative at first, but get to know him and you’ll discover a passionate and intense lover with a massive appetite for sex.
The goat is down-to-earth and doesn’t need anything exotic or fancy to get him going. He can be insecure at first and is unlikely to take the initiative until he feels comfortable.
That’s not to say he can’t be persuaded to experiment a little. Love and sex go together for the goat – once he feels secure in the relationship you’ll find he can be a surprising and creative lover.
Blow his mind: The goat likes to feel he is loved before he can really let himself go. Run him a bath and give him a slow sensual massage. Once he begins to relax, you’ll discover he’s a very horny goat indeed.
His favourite position: Expect him to take the missionary position – at least for the first few times you have sex. For a new twist, slide him into the soft rock.

Sunday, September 2, 2012

7 Things You Should Never Say To Your Wife

1. “Maybe you should go on a diet.” 
Yes, looking after your house and keeping it habitable has affected how she looks but if you can’t compliment her, don’t ever let her hear this one. Especially when you’re sitting with your perfect tyre in place.

2. “Why don’t you work as long as me?”
Yes, we get it. You’re irritated and need to spark off an argument but talking about what a great sacrifice you make by working is not going to help anyone. Especially if she’s quit her own job to look after the house and kids.

3. " That one looks hot"
If you have ever said this to your wife while checking out another woman and lived to survive the tale, you know what a landmine this sentence is loaded with.

4. “I don’t feel like talking.” 
This can be excused if used sparingly. However, if you want to prevent communication problems in your relationship then you better learn to have an open channel all the time.

5. “All you do is nag.” 
Desist from ever saying this. Your wife’s already short fuse will be completely blown if you such this incendiary sentence.

6. “Must be that time of the month.”
If you think you can use this line as a weapon for a clever retort, you’ve got another thing coming. This can be one of the most insulting, not to mention sexist, things you can ever say to your wife.

7. “You’re acting like your mother.”
The biggest no-no. No woman likes to be compared to another woman, especially her mother. Bear in mind you’re also passing a judgement on her mother with this one. Unless you want to spend an entire year apologising, refrain from ever using this line during your entire marriage.


Why Women Forgive Cheaters But Man Don't

Today a report claimed that more than 6 in 10 women would happily forgive their partner for up to three ‘relationship errors’, but a massive 9 out of 10 men would dump their partner if they strayed just once. So what’s up with that? A quick poll around the office revealed three possible reasons...


We’re more realistic
My first instinct was to point the finger angrily at men and shout, ‘Er, you still think it’s us with the unrealistic expectations guys?!?!” Yes, after months of enduring eye-rolls and sarcastic comments from menfolk about our weird and ‘unhealthy’ fixations with the ethereal Edward Cullen and lustworthy Christian Grey, maybe the time has finally come for us to tell men where to shove it, because actually, it’s us women who are more realistic about life and relationships after all.
Yes, people cheat. And don’t get me wrong, it’s crap, wrong and horribly heart-wrenching when it happens. But maybe it’s us girls who know that it doesn’t always have to be a black and white ‘dumping’ issue and that hey, maybe, we can get over it and it’s not always the end of the world. In fact, social scientist Catherine Hakim appeared on BBC 4’s Woman’s Hour last week, saying exactly this. Hakim said that as a society we actually need to be more tolerant of affairs and that sometimes, they can even be a good thing. “If you take the view that  most of them blow over and a good marriage is still a good marriage we should be a bit more laid back about them like the French, Italians and Spanish,” she said. Controversial? Absolutely. Realistic? Maybe.

Men are territorial
Of course, the other explanation is that men’s egos simply can’t take the battering of being cheated on. As a rule, men tend to be much more territorial about their partners and while most men can’t handle the idea of their partner getting it on with somebody else, women tend to react much more strongly to emotional affairs than just physical affairs. A survey of my male friends revealed that they just can’t handle the idea of another guy getting their mitts on “their goods” (yes, their actual words) and simply can’t get over it. As one male friend put it, “It’s just not very masculine thing to let another guy get it on with your girlfriend and let them get away with it, is it? We’d look like a right walkover.” Could it be that men are prepared to throw away years of investment after one (probably stupid) mistake just for the sake of their pride? And that women are able to see past infidelity and see the bigger picture? Possibly.

It’s our low self-esteem
Of course, the other explanation isn’t quite as empowering. Could our readiness to accept affairs actually be down to a darker reason, like our low self-esteem? A recent survey showed that 3 out of 4 women say they lack confidence, compared with 57% of men. We also know that women in the workplace rate themselves as less competent than their male counterparts (a recent study showed than only half of women managers said they had high levels of confidence, compared to 70% of men). So could it be happening in relationships too? As a colleague reminded me earlier this week, once women hit 35, there’s just one single man to every seven women (seriously) so perhaps it’s this panic making us feel that we should hang on to our guy, no matter how tough it gets – because, hey, it’s better than being single!
Personally, I think all of us deserve to be in a happy, secure relationship and I know I’d much rather be single and happy than clinging on to a cheating guy for the rest of my life. But what do you guys think? Share your comment :)