Unless your
doctor tells you otherwise, it is perfectly safe For you to have sex throughout
your pregnancy. However, towards the expected birth date, your size may make
many positions uncomfortable for you. Penetration may be easiest if you lie on
your side and your partner enters from behind. Oral sex and mutual masturbation
should cause no problems. Some women fear that sexual activity or orgasm
may trigger off labor but sex cannot induce labor unless the baby is due
anyway, when the prostaglandin present in the man’s semen may cause it to
start.
The sex drive of some women decreases during the
first Trimester of pregnancy. This may be due totiredness and nausea, or to a
hidden belief that it is 'not right' for a mother to enjoy sex. Theproblem will
usually disappear of its own accord.In some women, the sex drive actually
increasesduring the middle three months (the secondtrimester) of pregnancy, and
some claim thattheir lovemaking is more satisfying than everbefore. This may be
because the high level of circulating hormones means that a woman can be
stimulated more easily and reach a pitch of sexual excitement more quickly than
when not pregnant. A pregnant woman's sexual organs breasts, nipples and
genitals - are especially highly developed, which probably increases sexual
awareness. Finally, there is of course complete freedom from the worry of
getting pregnant, which allows a deeper level of 'letting go'.
Some women
and their partners worry that sex may harm the unborn child,
but such fears are groundless. The fetus is protected from infection by the
plug of mucus at the neck of the womb. In rare cases, infection can occur, but
this is usually due to lack of normal hygiene precautions or having sex with several different partners. The baby is also
protected against being squashed by the amniotic fluid in which it floats in
the womb. Avoid over-athletic sex because it will be uncomfortable for you, but
don't worry about hurting the baby. Sex should not cause a miscarriage in a
normal, healthy pregnancy.
You can resume sex after childbirth as soon as it is
comfortable to do so. Women who have had an episiotomy (in which the perineurn
is cut to facilitate birth), will probably feel sore for at least three weeks.
When you feel confident that your wound has healed,begin to re-establish your
sex life, taking it slowlyand gently and using a lubricating jelly ifnecessary
to prevent scar tissue causingdiscomfort or pain. It is important to establish
sexual contact with your partner as soon as you can, as you will both need to
get close again. If you still feel sore, remember there are other ways of
giving and receiving affection. Don't let your partner feel that you are
lavishing all your care and attention on your baby and excluding him from your
love.
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