Spoons
The woman lies comfortably on her side and the man
enters her from behind, fitting his body closely to hers. This position puts no
pressure on the woman's abdomen and is suitable for the most advanced stages of
pregnancy. The man can cuddle up close and caress her breasts, while kissing
her shoulders and the nape of her neck.
Leapfrog
The woman kneels on the bed with legs spread wide,
and falls comfortably forwards as the man enters her from behind. He can then
caress her back and control the depth of thrust. This position is ideal when
the woman starts to feel uncomfortable with the man's weight pressing down on
her and she wants to protect her belly from over-enthusiastic thrusting.
Astride
This is a good position for the middle months of
pregnancy, when the missionary position has become uncomfortable, but the woman
has quite a bit of energy for sex. She sits astride the man's lap and supports
herself with her arms. He can help her as she moves up and down on top of him,
taking control when she gets tired.
Oral sex
Oral sex begins with the first deep
kiss, and continues with kisses all over the body, concentrating finally on the
genitals. On the part of the giver it requires a degree of emotional
involvement, because it must be done with patience, tenderness, sensitivity and
mounting but controlled excitement if it is to be really good. Lovers who give
oral sex reluctantly and without generosity or enjoyment make their partners
feel guilty and selfish, and too tense and worried to relax and take pleasure
themselves.
From the receiver, oral sex requires trust, and the confidence that comes with being made to feel desirable. In sex, as in other areas of life, it is often more difficult to receive generosity than to give it, but the person who succumbs completely to pleasure delivers himself or herself over to the lover, and this also gives sense of wonderment. It goes without saying that sexual hygiene is of prime importance for anyone who engages in oral sex.
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